It's not often one gets to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, after the age of 40, but then again- there's no one like me! So here's the story: One of my best friends is getting married. Now, she is 12 years younger than I, but nevertheless we truly are good friends. We met when she was a student teacher of one of my co-workers. She was later hired as a teacher on my grade level and we've been friends ever since. The weird thing about me being a bridesmaid is her mom is only 5 years older than me! Yes, I said 5 years so I can really relate to her! Anyway, my friend begged me to be in it, and of course I felt guilty saying no, thus I'm a bridesmaid! Okay, so today I went to get fitted for the dress. Oh Lord what a depressing situation! Everyone else in the wedding is a single digit size. You know pre-teen sizes like 3, 5, 7, or 9. Me? Well, let's just say that I had to pay and extra fee to get my dress in a double digit woman's size!! Oh, I'm just too fat to be wearing one of those formal taffeta bridesmaids dresses, but when you don't want to dissapoint a friend you put yourself in all kinds of embarrassing situations! So, I guess I better go for a long walk so I can get rid of some of the stress of today and to burn up a few more calories! Take care and be Blessed!!